Why Women decrease their Libido at 40s?

A survey shows that the majority of men think about sex more, at least twice a day. But on the other side only one quarter women said that they think about it that frequently. So at this age both men and women fantasize less but women fantasize lesser than men.

Men want sex more avidly at this age than women. One of my friend he often raise this matter openly that his wife has lost her interest in sex at all. Sometime being friend we use to crack jocks on him but it’s true. And I was sure about it that something is really there which we are not able to figure it out.  So I wanted to know why it is happening with women. So I talked to many women of similar age group and concluded their views about it ………. ………all men…….. have a look………….....................

“Changes in our life style can also be one of the reasons of losing Libido. Sometimes it's the other way around, when stress from work, children, birth control come along, and libido goes out of the window.”

“What men rarely understand is that they want sex often and steadily, whereas women, tend to be most interested during the time they are fertile, which is about 5 days per month. You can see how there is a bit of a mismatch.”

“Well...most of us don't. But sometimes our husbands treat us like crap all day and then want sex at night, which we usually aren't interested in, and then we get blamed for losing interest.”

“ Sex for a women is connected with their heart , after so many years of marriage we start taking each other otherwise, there is no fun, after having kids, I am out of shape may be my husband lost interest in loving me, he only calls me when he need sex, otherwise…???”

“May be our Indian Male Dominating Society can be a major reason of it where women are always busy no matter that they are housewives or working, for them no Sundays, no holidays, nothing. So how can we think about sex after a long tiring day”.

So with the conclusion of some of the views of women, who admitted that they show less interest in sex with their husbands. Now responsibilities come on men if they want their wives as horny as they were right after the marriage or as a girlfriend. So they also have to take some initiative towards it.

Make her feel beautiful and loved, help her escape from her everyday life, make it exciting and different. May be you can go for another honeymoon…and improve your relationship rather complaining about it.